In the last article we saw that peer pressure has both positive and negative effects on a teenager. Now, we will look upon the ways to deal with peer pressure.
If you feel pressured by people to do things you’re uncomfortable doing, there are lots of ways to respond. Be prepared to deal with peer pressure by having a response ready. Dealing with the pressure is important to prevent yourself from becoming an addict. Identify negative and positive pressures from peers and plan to overcome negative peer pressures in different ways.
Dealing with Peer Pressure
Skills necessary in dealing with Peer Pressure are –
• Self-awareness about the consequences and the effects of the pressure. You should be aware that you are facing this and respond accordingly.
• In this difficult situation, you should know to cope up with stress and emotions. If everyone is doing it then it is not necessary that you should also follow them.
• Quick decision-making ability is a must while dealing with peer pressure. You should be prepared to face these kinds of situations.
• If you want to deal with peer pressure, then problem-solving skills are also required. Dealing with peer pressure boosts your problem solving skills which are very important in life.
• You should know to select the correct kind of friends and know to break friendships with wrong kinds of friends who put a lot of pressure on you.
Responding to Peer Pressure in the Moment
- The most basic way to deal with peer pressure is saying ‘no’ like you mean it. Say no confidently and make eye contact while saying it. This will make the message loud and clear and they will never ask you about the same thing again because they know your answer to it. Be careful not to get baited into doing something by being called “scared.” Stay firm in your own decision.
- Change the subject or make an excuse to leave the conversation. Avoiding the question might send the message that you’re still interested but don’t want to respond. While coming up with excuses is a great option if you’re feeling shy or intimidated, or if you don’t want to come off as being rude. Make sure that your excuse is believable.
Anticipating Peer Pressure
- Make your own decisions. Do things that make you happy and make those decisions on your own. While some people might ask you to do something that pushes you outside your comfort zone in a good way, be mindful of any negative consequences that could occur.
- Plan a response. Whether you haven’t experienced peer pressure yet or you want to respond better for next time, think of a response you can use if you’re ever asked something you don’t want to do.
- Choose positive friends. When dealing with peer pressure, start by choosing friends who won’t pressure you do things. Your friends should accept you for who you are without wanting to change you.
In a nutshell: You can resist peer pressure by thinking things through for yourself, and figuring where you stand on the risks of the situation.