CHANGE IS A FUNDAMENTAL TRUTH OF LIFE. THE SURROUNDINGS THAT WE LIVE UNDERGO CONSTANT CHANGE. NO PLACE REMAINS THE SAME FOR MORE THAN TWO YEARS. THE DEVELOPMENT CAUSES THE CHANGE TO THE SURROUNDING THAT WE LIVE. BUT NOT ALL CHANGES ARE POSITIVE. SOME CHANGES MAY COMPLETELY DAMAGE THE IDEA OF EXISTANCE ITSELF. PEOPLE AROUND US CHANGE AND SO DOES WE. THE CIRCUMSTANCES IN ONES LIFE LEAVES NO OPTION OTHER THAN TO CHANGE.STABILITY IS JUST A FALSE IDEA. THE GREATEST EXAMPLE IS NATURE WHICH IS COMPLETLY UNDERGOING CHANGES OVER THE TIME. IT HAS CHANGED ITS IMAGE FROM THAT OF SUFFERER TO DOER- WHETHER WE LIKE IT OR NOT.
WE ARE UNDER CONSTANT CHANGE. WE MAY NOT BE AWARE OF THIS FACT, BUT WE ADAPT TO THE CHANGES IN OUR SURROUNDINGS. APART FROM THIS A PERSON CAN BRING CHANGE TO HIS CHARACTER, HIS BEHAVIOUR, HIS DRESSING DELIBRATELY. BUT NOT ALL PEOPLE SHOWS THIS COURAGE BRING CHANGES IN THEIR OWN LIFE.WE ARE COMFORTABLE AT THE STABILITY THAT LIFE PROVIDES. ONE MAY BE HAPPY IN GETTING UP IN THE MORNING , MAKING FOOD, SENDING CHILDREN TO SCHOOL, REACHING FOR WORK, RETURN HOME IN THE EVENING AND SPENT THE REMAINING TIME WITH THE FAMILY. THIS TOTALLY FEELS COMFORTABLE AS LONG AS THE PEOPLE AROUND US IS HAPPY. A STUDENT MAY FEEL COMFORTABLE TO SIT IN A CORNER WITH A BOOK IN HAND RATHER THAN TO JOIN HIS FRIENDS AND START A CONVERSATION.
BUT FEELING COMFORTABLE IS NOT ALWAYS EQUAL TO BEING HAPPY. HAPPYNESS IS ATTAINED BY SURPRISING OURSELVES WITH ACTS. ITS ABOUT DOING THINGS THAT REALLY MEAN TO YOU. HAPPINESS IS NOT ATTAINED BY REPEATING THE ROUTINES SO THAT YOU CAN FEEL COMFORTABLE. ITS NOT ABOUT KEEPING PEOPLE AROUND YOU HAPPY. A SHY BOY WHO SPENTS MOST OF THE TIME WITH HIS BOOKS MAY LIKE TO TALK TO HIS CLASSMATES. BUT HE IS ACCOUMSTED TO THE COMFORTABILITY IN STAYING AWAY FROM THE GROUP. TALKING REALLY MEANS A TEDIOUS TASK FOR HIM. BUT HE IS NOT AWARE OF THE HAPPINESS HE CAN ATTAIN BY TALKING TO THE PEOPLE. THE CHANGE MUST COME FROM HIS SIDE.
ONE MUST STEP OUT OF THE COMFORT ZONE TO ATTAIN GREATNESS IN LIFE. THIS IS THE MEANING OF CHANGE. AND CHANGE REQUIRES COURAGE. A LOT OF ENERY IS TO BE PUT IN THE PROCESS OF CHANGE. WHEN ONE REALIZE THAT HE/SHE IS NOT HAPPY ABOUT ONE’S LIFE, A THOUGHT OF CHANGE MUST OCCUR. AND CHANGE IS NOT EASY. A CHANGE FROM HOME MAKER TO WORKING WOMEN REQUIRES DETERMINATION. IT REQUIRES TIME TO BUIT COURAGE TO TALK IN PUBLIC. BUT THIS EFFORS CAN GIVE FRUITFUL RESULTS. IT MAY TAKE TIME, BUT THE RESULT IS OBVIOUS.
A CHANGE IN ROUTINE, A CHANGE IN CAREER , OR A CHANGE IN PERSPECTIVE MUST BE BOUGHT WHEN EVER WE FEEL SO. STICKING ON TO THE THINGS FROM PAST EVEN IF WE KNOW IT’S NOT RIGHT IS A MISTAKE. WE MUST REALIZE THAT BEING IN THE ROUTINE CAN GIVE US NOTHING WHILE A SMALL CHANGE CAN BRING LOT OF DIFFERENCE. IT’S IS ALSO OBVIOUS THAT EVEN A SMALL CHANGE REQUIRE LOT OF WORK. BUT ONCE THE PROCESS IS STARTED THERE IS NO LOOKING BACK.