5 TIPS TO ENHANCE PERSONALITY

The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique. When someone’s personality is good, it means that the person is pleasent to be with. It is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.

LISTEN

Being a better listener would be the major thing. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you’re the only person in the world. Giving someone attention when they speak can make them feel important. They want to be noted and taken seriously, eye contact can help us convey that we are indeed listening.

Example: we are drawn to a friend who listens to us rather than the one who talks more than listen. Listening is the key to effective communication.

Without the ability to listen effectively, messages are easily misunderstood. As a result, communication breaks down and the sender of the message can easily become frustrated or irritated. The perfect conversation ratio would be 75% listening and 25% speaking. Listening in the sense cultivate the habit of active listening by giving signs that you are listening for example: nodding your head and giving an appropriate phrase now and then.

AVOID THE ME TOO SYNDROME

When someone talks to us, avoid telling them that the same happened to you too. It is not about you. We can say that when we relate to few things. But avoid saying “That happened with me too” or ” worse than that happened to me” don’t assume that their problem or query is small. Each person has a different emotion.

ICE BREAKING

Icebreakers are commonly presented as a game to “warm up” the group by helping the members to get to know each other. Icebreaker are fun activities arranged to help people get to know one another. They can also be designed to allow students to become acquainted with course content and expectations. The person will see the human side of you when ice breaking jokes or questions are made and warms up.

POWER OF KNOWING NAMES

Most of us forget people’s names which isn’t going to look well. Our names are an incredibly important part of our identity. They carry deep personal, cultural, familial, and historical connections. They also give us a sense of who we are, the communities in which we belong, and our place in the world.

Pronouncing names correctly shows that I remember you, I care about you, and you are important. A name, our identity, is a powerful thing. It is a descriptor that allows people to make quick judgments and assumptions about us.

INTERESTS

Talk fluently on a wide range of topics. People with the same interests will talk more. Example: someone loves books and movies. Talking to them about the same will enhance the conversation. It will be a conversation rather than a solo conversation from our side. Kindling their interest by talking about the topics that they find interesting will help us to communicate better. The person will not forget us that easily as we had a satisfying conversation about the topic of interest.

An additional point for you, A charismatic person will have the confidence to say no. Don’t be afraid of setting healthy boundaries. What will they think if I say no? Will my personality be considered as bad if I say no? No. It doesn’t affect your personality.

Hope this helps. Thank you!