People wear the mask and pretend to be somebody they are not such people are termed to be fake people.
Fake people are genuine people because of a selfish motive always such as attention, sympathy, promotion, etc.

Signs of a fake person:
I, ME, AND MYSELF
fake people are full of themselves. They collect every memory which involves. They think everything rotates around them.
Most of the people are not good they act or pretend, So the other person appears inferior and they get all of the attention.

Projecting emotions smartly
Fake people try to be alert while you have an emotional conversation with them. Because they don’t their true emotions to be expressed.

Attention Seeker
To navigate fake people one should always notice how much attention they try to seek or steal and want to be in the spotlight.

Pleaser
They try to please people because they want some selfish outcome every time. They say yes just to be in the good books but retract after their selfish motive is gained.

Crappy friend
Fake people are bad friends. They don’t try to understand you and your feeling. They would not be there for you when you truly need them.

Your success lies in your hand. Success doesn’t come to you by just dreaming it needs sheer perseverance, patience, and dedication.

What is Success?

Success differs from person to person. For some, it may be money, self-care, flexible work hours, or personal fulfillment, etc. Why you want to be successful is personal to you. Your partner, family, etc might be having a different definition of success. But you should stick to yours.

People usually choose to be successful because they want to feel like they are important. But success is all about striving and trying to survive and grow.

Things You should understand if you want to be successful in life:

Hard work and patience.
You won’t become successful overnight. You have to be patient and keep working incessantly towards your goal.

Learn new skills.
When you develop or learn new skills they help you to overcome hurdles and challenges of life.

Do not get deterred by failure.
People with a growth mindset do not see failure as an obstacle they see it as a lesson and learn from it. They have a positive approach to life.

Reinforce your willpower.
People with strong willpower are determined and dedicated towards their passion and goals in life.

A Positive approach is something that expands your mind and helps you vision greater possibilities in life. Here are some ways which can help you to develop a positive approach in your life.

Choose your circle wisely.
When you hang out with people who complain about everything you become a complainer too and see the negative in the world. So, choose your friend circle wisely, friends who like their jobs, have new ideas, and have a better outlook of the world.

Feed your mind with positive thoughts.
Feeding your mind with inspirational thoughts, uplifting audiobooks can help you to develop a positive attitude.

Be Compassionate
Doing something kind for people makes us feel happy. So, if you are being kind to people and it’s a regular thing it’s going to make you feel satisfied.

Do not rely on others for positive input.
Appreciate you for your hard work. This will cheer you to do everything more dedicately.

Possessing the habit of reading can help you to build your character, induce confidence, reduce stress, and puts you in a better mood.
Reading can give you a sense of refreshment that you need from your hectic schedule so if you are a person who doesn’t read, it’s never too late to start.

Five reasons you should develop a reading habit:

1.Builds your character  

Reading ample books can boost your confidence and mold your personality

2.Imparts Knowledge
you can learn a lot from a book be it fiction and non-fiction it provides you knowledge of the outer world.

3.Enhances vocabulary
While you read a book you will come across new words, phrases that will improve your vocabulary and flatter your communication skills.

4.Stressbuster
A book can relax you and keep you at peace.

5.Sleep aid
Reading books at night can help you better sleep and dream well.

It’s okay to be sad. It’s necessary. It acts you to look at our emotions closely. As there are seasons and phases in life, Sadness is one of them. Avoiding sadness can lead to anxiety and distress. But if choose to accept it and do through it you will experience a positive of it.

I am not saying one should take sadness lightly. It should be distinguished from ordinary sadness. We think we are not happy all the time, our desire to be happy keeps leveling up. It is a common emotion that every next person goes through when they face rejection, lose someone, despair, grief, etc. It’s okay to get overwhelmed by it.

Friendly reminder🔔
Whenever you feel low or sad just remind yourself that it’s okay whatever you are feeling. Nobody can monopolize happiness they have to go through sadness some days. Facing your emotions and acknowledging them will bring you mental well-being.

The term Revenge Bedtime procrastination means staying up late at night just because your entire day was preoccupied with chores, kids, work, or other responsibilities. This is the time that you provide to yourself and regain all your lost time.

When we feel like we can’t control our days we try to monopolize our nights. However, this is not healthy behavior. As we need an adequate amount of sleep to function properly and be mentally healthy. So if you find yourself stuck in the loop of Revenge bedtime procrastination,
Try to set boundaries to your work, read a book, allot a little time for yourself in the day this would surely change your lifestyle. As Rome was not built in a day, you have to be patient in this process.

Failure in life is inevitable. Everyone experiences some kind of failure at some point in their life. The biggest failure of life is having the fear of failure. Failure is a lesson that makes you learn which part should not be repeated or done again. It allows you to grow and enhance yourself.

To think failure is the opposite of success is futile. Failure should be perceived positively. Each failure teaches you something. When you overcome the fear of failure you reach the best version of yourself.

Failure paves you a way to success. People who have perseverance and dedication even after failure achieves the summit with their sheer hard work. Potential failure should not deter you from trying and persisting. So after confront failure review your action and learn from your errors and begin again.

There is no doubt that colorism is widely present in India. Light-skinned has a higher preference over dark in every field.

1.Marriage and Makeup
Light-skinned domestic Indian women have become the desired choice for wives, while poorer, darker, lower caste and Dalit women often experience fewer options in the marriage market. Often, with many fairness creams and other beauty products being highlighted in the media user, particularly girls, believe they do wonders to the complexion.

2.Career opportunities.
As a community, It is imperative that we understand colorism and how it can affect an opportunity for a job, Perhaps a great career. If we can all be aware of this phenomenon and how it just. not only affects those in Hollywood but regular working people that want to make an honest living . We can change the definition of competence and skills that are just not skin deep, what it means in the workplace and beyond that space.

3.Mental health.
Colorism can critically affect one’s self-esteem and they and get body image issues, anxiety, and many more psychological difficulties.

India falls below many Asian countries on the human development index (HDI). There are multiple reasons which hinder growth in India.
Why is India still a developing nation?

1. Inequality is the primary reason stopping India to grow.

• Economic Inequality. The distribution of wealth in India is unequal. Either people are very rich or extremely poor.
• Social and caste status. The inequality in society for Dalits and lower Caste has been too much in India. They get treated unpleasantly.

2.The government Divide and rule strategy. The Indian Government is very infamous for creating rift among religions or divide them based on religion to collect votes during the election. And people easily get fooled by those leaders.

3.Unproductive population. High population is not a substantial problem. The real problem is unproductivity among the people. China has a high population too but still, they are a developed country in every field.

4.Corruption.The corruption in India is spreading its roots day by day . If no action is taken against it, being a developed nation would be just a dream for India.

When someone does not behave according to our expectations our brain automatically, mindlessly starts reacting to it by getting angry, anxious, or end with bad terms. We get irritated and annoyed by others’ actions because we expected better from them. But you know that you can’t control the way others behave. But you can control your actions and respond to them.

People try to create turmoil around us. But the only thing we can do is be compassionate towards them. This can happen through Mindfulness. Mindfulness is when you take a pause and let the wave of mindless reaction pass and then respond to the situation.

3 ways to Mindfulness:

1. Ask for a change. If you think the person is capable of changing you can ask for it. But while you ask make sure you don’t put the other person on the defensive. Asking him with kindness and gracefully rather than doing it with criticism. Criticism is futile and it does not work well in such a situation. Do not forget to appreciate the efforts of the person if he is changing for you.
2. Set limits and Boundaries .When you can’t control someone else behavior. One should learn to limit their responses to it. One should maintain boundary which means refusing some behavior if you feel it’s inappropriate.
3. Acceptance. This means mindfully accepting that the person would never change putting efforts would be ineffective. You decide to be ok with it. Acceptance doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try it. One should try but if it’s not hitting any change, stop and accept with compassion.

Indian Media has been proved as an influential, patriotic, and trustworthy pillar of the nation. But gradually Indian media is losing its credibility and decency. Not just electronic media but print media too has become a puppet in the hands of the Government. The foul practice of taking money and being a puppet of the ruling party has destroyed Indian media drastically.

Media these days shows trivial issues over serious issues happening in the nation. It tries to coat the government and suppresses the truth where people are suffering because of the administration. It barely questions the government.

Media is so influential that it can play a huge role in the make or mar of a government in a nation. But as most of the media and news channels are paid they divert the real issues and are not serving the real objective of the nation. Paid news is lowering the morals and integrity of journalism. And as we can see the paid media is spreading its root all over. Most of the viewers switch the news channel because they no more trust the respective channel. And have begun to doubt the authenticity of the news.

What is Motivation?
Motivation is what drives you toward your goal, and keeps you going even when you feel like giving up. There exist two types of motivation:
Positive Motivation and Negative Motivation.
Positive Motivation: Positive motivation is when you are passionate about achieving something and you want it desperately.
Negative Motivation: When you do something because of the fear of losing something is negative motivation.
I think Positive Motivation works the best for people.
So motivation essentially is a way to do and achieve something you want. There are times when you don’t feel like waking up early, but when you assign a reason to get up early you do that with excitement.
If you have motivation for anything you want to achieve, you can sustain efforts for much longer. First and foremost
Believe in Yourself. Have the confidence and repeat to yourself that you can achieve anything once you decide and plan.
Set your goal. While you set your goal make sure you are sticking to them.
One goal at a time: Having several goals at a time can sap your energy. So have one goal and be dedicated towards it.
Effort: Even if you feel like giving up and see hurdles in your way which frightens you, just don’t give up keep persisting. Because if give your attention to obstacles means you have been distracted.
Reinforce: Reinforce your goals daily, get your brain used to them. So that it can detect what you want and help you achieve them.

Social media is a tool to build networks, share public content, put forth your voice, etc. People, especially youth is on social apps to influence, get influenced, be in touch with friends, and get a day to day updates of events taking place in the world. Social media can boost your confidence but can get you to feel low in no time.

Ways how social media takes over your mental health:

1. Social media and depression. As every coin has two sides, Social media too can bring people together and can break them by creating a rift, online differences, trolling, disagreement, etc. It can make people feel alone and isolated.
2. Social media and Confidence. When people see posts of fashion influencers, models, or their friends who upload pictures regularly or friends who are enjoying at some exquisite destinations we feel inadequate or envious. And sometimes have self-doubts about our body and appearances. Social media uplifts the feeling of insecurity among people.
3. FOMO.FOMO stands for fear of missing out, this happens when you feel you are missing something important and other people are having a better life than you.
4. Attention seeker. Social media makes you crave attention from people. Constantly, uploading selfies, stories to seek the attention of the followers and gain followers.
5. A huge distraction. Social media can snatch your precious time which you could have spent on something productive but here you are scrolling down the apps.

Job vs Business has been a hot topic to talk about always. Many people who advise you to choose business over jobs forget that being your boss is not everyone’s cup of tea. There is no denying businesses that have their perks of not getting fired, being the boss, having people to work for you, etc.

Following are 4 reasons to choose Job over business:

1. Jobs offer you more security. People usually choose Jobs over Business because jobs offer more security. By losing one job or getting fired one can still assure themselves of getting another one. However, the business loss comes with a lot of risks and sometimes unbearable.
2. Stable Income. The business has there own profit and loss. They are never stable as they keep fluctuating from time to time. But Jobs assure you a steady income every month without having a fear of loss.
3. Work fewer hours. Working under someone comes with 9-5 working hours and weekends off and not to forget the bonuses you get. While being a boss is getting flooded with work calls and being swamped.
4. You cant lose your house if your get laid off or fired. When your business experiences a fall or loss you risk your assets too. Whereas your job offers you no such risk. One can still enjoy on savings they have.

People who suck or drain your energy can be termed Energy Vampires, Energy Suckers, etc. These are the people who suck out all of your energy make you feel mentally exhausted physically tired and all drained up. This can be more concerning if they are your close ones. They gaslight you in such a way that leaves you feel guilty and sad. Having such people in your life can make you restless, sleepless, anxious and can affect your mental well-being. Such people are a big red flag. But we do not usually recognize or navigate such people around us that easily.

Signs to look for in people who drain you:

• They have all intense, high nervous energy and are dramatic all the time. These people have their energy all high in such a way that sucks all your energy. They have their melodrama always on by making big deal out of nothing.

• They have all intense, high nervous energy and are dramatic all the time. These people have their energy all high in such a way that sucks all your energy. They have their melodrama always on by making big deal out of nothing.

• Attention Seeker: They try to get your attention now and then. They try to impose themselves on you.

• They never try to comprehend while you communicate. They never understand your point of view and think high of themselves which eventually makes you feel guilty.

Ways to deal with Energy Vampires

It is not easy to navigate an emotionally draining person especially if it’s somebody in your close circle.

• But once you have navigated that person do not feel afraid to counter them.

• Prepare yourself firmly to confront them.

• Do not feel guilty after refusing or saying no to such a person.

• Stay calm and don’t feed onto their drama.

• Talk to them make them understand what you feel about their behavior.

• But most importantly, keep your mental health above everything and take utmost care of yourself.

People usually think that spirituality and religion the identical thing. However, these two are distinct from each other. Spirituality is more of an individual approach while religion is something practiced by a community or a group.

Spirituality is an individual practice, it deals with personal well-being. Our life is comprised of ups and downs, good phases and bad phases. Many people perceive spirituality as a way to find solace and seek peace and find stability in their respective lives. It helps you in coping with uncertainty in life and helps one to comprehend or find your actual purpose in your life.

Whereas, Religion is a set of beliefs practices by others. Fundamentally, religion is believing in pre-established beliefs and customs. Religion is believing that you have a dependable power that dominates you As you know these are two distinct concepts, they should not be used as a tool to radicalize one against the other. Choosing any of them or both is a personal preference and subjective path.

As Dr. Schneider puts it so succinctly, “What we may be learning from the struggles of our time in this area of the religion and spirituality context, is how to sip lightly to institution even as we drink deeply of our tradition.”

Pets come with enormous health benefits. Having a pet can help you reduce stress, anxiety and can cheer you up mentally.

Most of the pet owners know the beautiful feeling of having a pet as their companion animal. However, many of us are unaware of the benefits of owning a pet. Having a pet can who can snuggle you while you had a long day can take your tiredness away and help you reduce your anxiety and stress. For example, Dogs can understand your emotions through the tone of your voice and try to make you feel better by snuggling or kissing.

Pets especially dogs and cats can attenuate your depression, loneliness and ease your stress. Also taking them for a walk can improve your cardiovascular health.

Being a dog owner one might know how unconditional their love is. The feeling of snuggling a furry friend can’t be explained in words. Studies have shown that dog owners are far more likely to meet their exercise requirements because of their dog. Taking care of dogs, feeding them regularly, can induce affection and make more efficient as human. But having a dog is not everybody’s cup of tea, taking accountability for a pet and being a pet is not an easy task. So buying or adopting a pet comes with great responsibility.

We have all experienced an unprecedented time in the years 2020 and 2021 seems to be pretty similar to the previous year. Covid -19 has hit all of us and all of us are getting used to it. I just hope all the readers are safe and sound and are paying adherence to Covid-19 norms. As a human, this pandemic has offered us an opportunity to learn new skills. And especially people who are looking for recruitment as software engineers have gotten a chance to learn new programming languages.

There are few languages the company is demanding in the current scenario. The top three programming language one should put interest are:

#1 JavaScript

JavaScript is one of the most commonly used out of all programming languages. Almost every frontend application is built by using JavaScript. It is a beginner-friendly language and developers seem to love it. The global market has a high demand for JavaScript developers. Companies such as Google Facebook, Uber, and many more are hiring JavaScript developers. JavaScript is a dominating language it’s unavoidable. If you want to get a good package get your hands-on JavaScript.

#2 Python

Python is liked by developers and beginners due to its simplicity. It is by far the simplest language to learn and write. Python is used in research in the field of Artificial intelligence and Machine learning. Python is widely preferred by Data scientists. Python is used by top companies such as Instagram, Shopify, etc to build their back end. Python is widely used in almost every field. Learning Python can help you be hired by big companies.

#3 Java

Java stands as one of the most widely used languages still in 2021. Every second technology has Java involved in it. Companies like Uber, Twitter, etc used Java as their tech stack. So knowing Java programming can secure you jobs in big companies.