Hope for the best, but expect less

I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine. -Bruce Lee

A friend’s status update on a social media site: ‘Who hurt you? My own expectations.’

Yes, we all have expectations in our lives: what we want out of life and who we want to become. I believe one of the keys to happiness lies within the management of your expectations of people and circumstances. If you do not have expectations, you can never be disappointed. Often we tend to believe that the way we treat others will be the way we are treated in return. But, unfortunately, this does not always happen.

The biggest disappointments in our lives are often the result of misplaced expectations. This is especially true when it comes to our relationships and interactions with others. You need to make sure you enter into relationship with someone who has as big of a heart as you do. If you do not, you may feel as if you are being taken advantage of. You need to find people who appreciate what you do for them and who will reciprocate those actions.

There are two ways to be happy: improve your reality or lower your expectations. Having realistic expectations will allow you to accept the flaws each person has. We need to learn how to take responsibility for our own lives and our own decisions before we can expect others to do the same.

One of the biggest challenges we face in life is learning to accept people for who they truly are. Once you realize that your expectations cannot change people, the better off you will be. Give without expectation, accept without reservation, and love with hesitation. Unrealistic expectations most often do lead to disappointment. Too many people are obsessed with finding the perfect career or the perfect spouse, and as a result become increasingly frustrated when this does not happen in reality.

Expectation is the root of all heartache. Try to remain confident while maintaining positive aspirations; just remember not to make the aspirations so high that they are impractical or unreachable.

Acceptance is an amazing trait that needs to be actively worked toward. When things do not work out the way we had planned, it is much more beneficial to realize that is how life works rather than becoming frustrated at the situation. Have hope rather than expectations and you will tend not to be as disappointed.

People rarely behave exactly the way you want them to. Hope for the best, but expect less. And remember, the magnitude of your happiness will be directly proportional to your thoughts and how you choose to think about things. Even if a situation or relationship doesn’t work out at all, it’s still worth it, if it made you feel something new, taught you something afresh.

FATHER

FATHER

 

 

INTRODUCTION :

A dad is the male parent of a youngster. Other than the fatherly obligations of a dad to his kids, the dad may have a parental, legitimate, and social relationship with the youngster that conveys with it certain rights and commitments. An assenting father is a male who has become the youngster’s parent through the lawful interaction of reception. A natural dad is the male hereditary supporter of the formation of the newborn child, through sex or sperm gift. A natural dad may have legitimate commitments to a youngster not raised by him, like a commitment of money related help.

MY FATHER IS DIFFERENT !

As everybody likes to accept that their dad is unique, I do as well. In any case, this conviction isn’t simply founded on the adoration I have for him, yet additionally in view of his character. My dad claims a business and is very focused in all parts of life. He is the person who helped me to consistently rehearse discipline regardless of what work I do.

In particular, he has a jaunty nature and consistently makes my mom snicker with his senseless jokes even following 27 years of marriage. I totally love this senseless side of him when he is with his friends and family. He makes an honest effort to satisfy every one of our desires yet additionally keeps up the severity when the need emerges.

LOVE TOWARDS MY FATHER :

Probably the best thing I love about my dad is that he has consistently kept an extremely protected and open home climate. For example, my kin and I can discuss anything with him without the dread of being admonished or judged. This has helped us not to lie, which I have regularly seen with my companions.

Also, my dad has an undying adoration for creatures which makes him exceptionally thoughtful towards them. He rehearses his religion devotedly and is entirely beneficent as well. I have never seen my dad get out of hand with his elderly folks in all my years which makes me need to resemble him significantly more.

FATHER IS MY INSPIRATION :

I can gladly say that it is my dad who has been my wellspring of motivation from the very first moment. As such, his viewpoint and character together have formed me personally. Also, he enormously affects the world too in his own little manners. He gives his leisure time in dealing with homeless creatures which motivates me to do likewise.

My dad has shown me the importance of affection as a rose he endowments to my mom day by day come what may. This consistency and love urge we all to treat them a similar way. All my insight into sports and vehicles, I have gotten from my dad. It is one of the sole reasons why I seek to be a cricket major part later on.

CONCLUSION :

To summarize it, I accept that my dad has it all what it requires to be known as a genuine superhuman. The manner in which he oversees things expertly and actually leaves me hypnotized without fail. Regardless of how intense the occasions got, I watched my dad become harder. I positively seek to become like my dad. On the off chance that I could simply acquire a modest amount of what he is, I accept my life will be arranged.

 

Coca Cola controversy

As Cristiano Ronaldo snubbed Coca-Cola at the press conference ahead of Portugal’s Euro 2020 opener, the move had a spiralling effect all across the football fraternity. The move also coincided with the share prices of Coca-Cola dropping down, wiping off about USD 4 billion from their brand value. However, industry experts don’t feel the two incidents were related.

Highlights

  • Cristiano Ronaldo’s Coca-Cola snub at a Euro 2020 news conference has been a huge topic of discussion
  • The move also coincided with the brand value of Coke sinking by USD 4 billion
  • A market expert, however, has brushed aside any connection between the two

Ronaldo wasn’t pleased seeing Coca-Cola bottles placed on the table as he arrived to attend the press conference with Portugal manager Fernando Santos on the eve of the Hungary match. He put the Coke bottles aside and picked up a water bottle saying ‘Agua’, asking people to drink water over soft drinks.

While the move was to promote a healthier lifestyle, the fact that Coca-Cola is an official sponsor of Euro 2020, is bound to leave both the beverage brand and UEFA a little disappointed.

“Coke and UEFA will both be fuming,” sports marketing expert Tim Crow, who worked as an advisor to the beverage-maker for 20 years, was quoted as saying by The Athletic. “The fact is there’s an agreement between them, which all the FAs and players sign up to, and one of the contractual agreements is going to press conferences where you’re surrounded by the sponsors’ branding.”

It’s certainly not ideal that one of the most famous and most followed athletes on the planet makes a gesture like that. The sports marketing community will have raised more than an eyebrow in Ronaldo doing that,” he added.

A day after the incident, reports of Ronaldo’s move hurting Coca-Cola’s stock prices and brand value surfaced but Crow has dismissed any co-relation between the two incidents. Branding it as ‘complete nonsense’, Crow said that the investors in the United States of America are not impacted by what happens in a European football match’s press conference.

American investors are not driven by what happens in a press conference ahead of a European football match. It doesn’t work like that. Tonnes of stocks went down for several reasons but the two things are not related. There are a billion servings of Coke every day. I think they’ll be OK,” he said.

FATHER’S DAY

In all our good times and bad times, our family supports us with the best care. Every member of the family plays a vital role in our life. Father is the one who is the head of the family and the one on whom all the family members can rely.We consider all our fathers as our first superhero, who teaches us about good and evil.While growing up, we watch stories and cartoons of superheroes. Everybody wants a superhero in their life. But the real and first superhero in the lives of a child is their father.
For every person, the father is the symbol of strength that binds the entire family together. A father works day and night tirelessly to support the whole family economically and morally.He is the most important member of the family whose love for his children is just like oxygen for the survival of the lives. There’s nothing that big that he could not do for his family and there’s no such sacrifice that he will not do. Every little thing he does makes him great!!
Whenever we are stuck in a problem, the first person we remember is our father. Father is a pivotal element of the society and stands as a pillar for the family, on whom we can rely. So, to respect all the fathers around the world and their efforts, we celebrate Father’s Day on 21st June every year worldwide.Children show their love and respect for their fathers by giving them gifts and cards.people are always engaged with their busy schedules, and may not be able to express love and support to their fathers frequently. That is why we utilize Father’s Day to appreciate our fathers for their extreme contribution.
It is not just father’s day, it should be every day, that we wake up in the morning with immense gratitude towards our father for providing us with a happy life that we are living, for protecting us from the evils, for showering us with love, and being the support system and guiding us in all the life’s path.Loving and honoring our father on just one day by maybe posting about them in social media or giving them gifts is not enough. We must appreciate their role in our lives every day throughout the year. Our father is the one who will always stay by our side.He works diligently day and night just to keep his family happy and at par with the evolving society. He makes sure that none of the members feels dejected for lack of anything. Fathers take up all the responsibilities, be it the education of his children or every other monetary needs. He works every day in the quest of bettering everything and thus bettering the condition of the family. It’s important that he be rewarded for what he is and what he has been doing for the whole family. From the very childhood, everybody should be taught to respect their fathers, no matter what ways it can be done.

Father’s Day 2021

“It was my father who taught me to value myself.” – Dawn French

A father is a male parent of the child. Father may have a parental, legal, and social relationship with the child which includes specific advantages and responsibilities.

An enhanced amount of father-child relationship might help increase a child’s social security, scholastic success, etc. Their children might also produce greater problem-solving skills. Children who are usually raised with fathers observe themselves to be more cognitively and physically acceptable than their peers without a father. Mothers raising children together with a father reported less severe conflicts with their children.

Fatherhood as a lawful identity can be reliant on internal circumstances and behaviors.

“Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad, and that’s why I call you dad, because you are so special to me. You taught me the game and you taught me how to play it right.” – Wade Boggs.

Although your dad might tell you that he doesn’t want any gifts, you know that it is not possible for you to not gift him anything on such special occasions. After all, he’s the person you look up to all your years, and it’s only appropriate to get him a Father’s Day gift which shows just how much you value him and all that he does for you. Finding the ideal present for your dad is difficult.

So here is a list of gift ideas:

-Perfumes and fragrances

-Cakes/Chocolates

-Wallets/Belt/Sunglasses

-Shirts/T-shirts

-Books

-Cufflinks

-Customized Mugs

-Grooming kit

-Diary

Role of Fathers

As mentioned earlier, Anyone can father a child, but being a dad takes a lifetime. Fathers can perform an important role in every child’s life that cannot be filled by others. This role can have a tremendous influence on a child and help mold him/her into the person they become.

Fathers, like mothers, are a huge support in the improvement of a child’s emotional wellbeing. Children look up to their fathers to provide a physical and emotional feeling of assurance. Children want to bring pride to their fathers. When fathers are highly loving and supportive, it considerably improves a child’s cognitive and communicative development. It also imparts an overall sense of well-being and self-confidence.

Fathers not only determine who we are inside, but how we behave with people as we develop. The way a father approaches his child will determine what he or she looks for in other people. The patterns a father initiates in the connections with his children will manage how his children associate with other people.

Girls are dependent on their fathers for protection and heartfelt assistance. A father shows his daughter what a great relationship with a man is like. If a father is friendly and considerate, his daughter will look for those characteristics in men when she’s mature. If a father is powerful and heroic, she will associate similarly to men of the same quality.

Unlike girls, who represent their connections with others based on their father’s personality, boys display themselves after their father’s personality. Boys will ask for validation from their fathers from a very youthful age. As human beings, we grow up by copying the ways of those around us; that’s how we learn to operate in the world. If a father is loving and respectful, the young boy will grow up like that. When a father is missing, young boys look to other male figures to set the “practices” for how to perform and persist in the world.

Therefore, a father can definitely have a deep influence on their child’s life.

So today, don’t forget to tell your dad you love him, and thank him for being there!